By Indigo Sky
Have you ever found yourself
living in an uncomfortable roommate situation? You know the kind that brought you nothing but stress and constant worrying?
Have you ever had a roommate that left you wondering what kind of mood you’ll find them in on a daily basis?
“Don’t you just hate when your roommate wakes you up at 5 o’clock in the morning, meanwhile you don’t have to wake up until 10:00!
How about when your roommate starts the day by screaming and yelling despite them being the only ones awake.
Did you ever have a roommate that wakes up angry and miserable? causing everyone else to wake up in a bad mood.
Have you ever woken up to the sound of a war zone only to realize that it’s your roommate in drunken stupor.
Or how about a roommate that does their laundry while your trying to sleep?
Ever awaken to the banging thump of Nike sneakers in the dryer? I have several times and believe me I secretly hoped they would melt.
Add to that, the annoying sound of a washer machine that has a spin cycle out of balance!
Oh but wait! it gets better, now add the sound of “Godzillas” footsteps back and forth in the living room.
“Welcome to the world of roommates” I tell myself!”
quickly remembering that everything is temporary.
Ahh yes… at last I can hear the footsteps slowly fade out to the hallway and down the stairs. Finally I can sleep again.
Taking a deep breath I let the fleeting anger subside, as I confirm that misery loves company.
Sharing a living space can be challenging especially when one of you is on a spiritual path and the other is still stuck on a lower vibration.
Well I discovered a few ways to prevent unwanted drama and the inevitable fights, that come along with confronting the impossible roommate.
I had to endure about 2 years of feeling stuck, frustrated and defeated.
Thankfully I’ve discovered a whole new approach to dealing with a toxic roommate and the results are amazing!
I sleep with earplugs every night, not only is it cheap and effective, it has actually transformed my sleep deprivation.
Should it become super loud, I simply I reach for my Bose Headphones, and I’ll listen to Chakra balancing or Reiki meditation music.
I find this will raise my vibration, while allowing me to fall to back to sleep and wake up feeling refreshed. Instead instead of irritable and in s foul mood. I found this has helped to
prevent quite a few unnecessary fights.
I like to believe that our “home life” should be a “sacred space” after all there is certainly enough conflict and negativity in the world.
Don’t get me wrong, there are those moments when I am fed up, and just like any other person…would love to seek revenge on my roommate.
Just the very thought of vacuuming the living room at
midnight appeals to me in a harmless wicked way…to give them a taste of their own medicine, would probably satisfy me…if only temporary.
But today I say no thank you, I have worked much too hard to be where I am in my life.
I certainly don’t want diminish all of my efforts by resorting to an eye for an eye mentality.
Sometimes I will light incense and put on Reiki for cleansing the space of negativity, there’s also Reiki to ward off toxic people which I’ve used on several occasions.
I can testify that it has worked even after heated arguments,
I play the frequencies loud enough to be heard, allowing the vibrations to emit their powerful energy throughout the space and home.
Taking the higher road will keep the peace in your life, creating a peaceful environment while allowing you to remain your happy spiritual self.