“Living With A Toxic Roommate”

By Indigo Sky

Have you ever found yourself
living in an uncomfortable roommate situation? You know the kind that brought you nothing but stress and constant worrying?

Have you ever had a roommate that left you wondering what kind of mood you’ll find them in on a daily basis?

“Don’t you just hate when your roommate wakes you up at 5 o’clock in the morning, meanwhile you don’t have to wake up until 10:00!

How about when your roommate starts the day by screaming and yelling despite them being the only ones awake.

Did you ever have a roommate that wakes up angry and miserable? causing everyone else to wake up in a bad mood.

Have you ever woken up to the sound of a war zone only to realize that it’s your roommate in drunken stupor.

Or how about a roommate that does their laundry while your trying to sleep?

Ever awaken to the banging thump of Nike sneakers in the dryer? I have several times and believe me I secretly hoped they would melt.

Add to that, the annoying sound of a washer machine that has a spin cycle out of balance!

Oh but wait! it gets better, now add the sound of “Godzillas” footsteps back and forth in the living room.

“Welcome to the world of roommates” I tell myself!”
quickly remembering that everything is temporary.

Ahh yes…  at last I can hear the footsteps slowly fade out to the hallway and down the stairs. Finally I can sleep again.

Taking a deep breath I let the fleeting anger subside, as I confirm that misery loves company.

Sharing a living space can be challenging especially when one of you is on a spiritual path and the other is still stuck on a lower vibration.

Well I discovered a few ways to prevent unwanted drama and the inevitable fights, that come along with confronting the impossible roommate.

I had to endure about 2 years of feeling stuck, frustrated and defeated.

Thankfully I’ve discovered a whole new approach to dealing with a toxic roommate and the results are amazing!

I sleep with earplugs every night, not only is it cheap and effective, it has actually transformed my sleep deprivation.

Should it become super loud, I simply I reach for my Bose Headphones, and I’ll listen to Chakra balancing or Reiki meditation music.

I find this will raise my vibration, while allowing me to fall to back to sleep and wake up feeling refreshed. Instead instead of irritable and in s foul mood. I found this has helped to
prevent quite a few unnecessary fights.

I like to believe that our “home life” should be a “sacred space” after all there is certainly enough conflict and negativity in the world.

Don’t get me wrong, there are those moments when I am fed up, and just like any other person…would love to seek revenge on my roommate.

Just the very thought of vacuuming the living room at
midnight appeals to me in a harmless wicked way…to give them a taste of their own medicine, would probably satisfy me…if only temporary.

But today I say no thank you, I have worked much too hard to be where I am in my life.

I certainly don’t want diminish all of my efforts by resorting to an eye for an eye mentality.

Sometimes I will light incense and put on Reiki for cleansing the space of negativity, there’s also Reiki to ward off toxic people which I’ve used on several occasions.

I can testify that it has worked even after heated arguments,
I play the frequencies loud enough to be heard, allowing the vibrations to emit their powerful energy throughout the space and home.

Taking the higher road will keep the peace in your life, creating a peaceful environment while allowing you to remain your happy spiritual self.

“FINDING MY ZEN”

By Indigo Sky 7/3/18

I’ve had to strip away all of the
things, I thought I needed
in my life, little by little my
circle has gotten smaller
and I’m starting to feel like
the lonely Buddha in search
of enlightenment.
Each morning I awaken to a
world of peace and serenity
as I make it my mission to find
my zen.
Every day new discoveries await outside in nature’s playground,
a perfect day for me plays out like this…
I wake up and light an incense
and say a prayer for the new day
after that I complete my morning beauty ritual of slathering multiple sunscreens all over my face and body to protect me from the hot Miami sun.
I gather my hair into a ponytail and throw on a baseball cap for
extra sun protection. Then I’m off to explore a new day, filled with genuine appreciation for the nature and the beauty that surrounds me, sometimes the first thing I will notice is a beautiful butterfly or a rare bird like the blue cardinal which happens to be one of my favorite ones to spot, as they remind me of my late father.
Somehow I believe that his spirit is here with me and that maybe he’s actually reincarnated in that blue bird that seems hear me,
as it follows me along the path.
I will always remember how it was his favorite bird when he was a little boy growing up.
I like to believe animals communicate with us and that
we have to the power to communicate right back.
Today I had to wait for the thunderstorms to pass before I
could venture outdoors, but as soon as it subsided I wasted no time in heading out to see the wonders that were waiting to
be seen and cherished.
Mother nature cleanses and
restores the perfection in everything, I breathe in the fresh
oxygen from the surrounding trees, I can’t help but notice the droplets of rain on the enormous
palm leaves as they fan out
in perfection, with intricate patterns that can only be found
in nature.
Sitting on my meditation rock
I quietly observed all that’s
around me, as I take in the
rays of beaming sunlight and
feel the life force energy throughout my body.
I have a million things to be thankful for and finding my zen is one of them, it’s the greatest life changing gift.
I’ve entered a new phase in my life, I’m a changed person and chaos has no place in it.
I now choose to live in a state
of bliss that nothing and no one
can ever take away from me.
Every day I worship God,
I’m grateful to have a restored connection, after what seemed like nearly a lifetime of separation and turmoil.
Each new day I’m gifted,
I recognize what’s really important and how fortunate
I am to be here today.
Now I take the time to breathe in slowly and really become mindful of every detail in my life.
I can finally enjoy the
precious moments that I’ve been given, I’m living in harmony with nature and the circadian rhythms with the sun and the moon.
At long last I get to experience serene moments created from
from a higher realm,
which allows me to feel the oneness within my heart and throughout my soul.

“Desperately Defending My Spiritual Views With An Atheist”

By Indigo Sky

I have to admit that ever since
I’ve embarked on my spiritual journey I’ve had a difficult time
finding likeminded people.
Most of my friends are still stuck
in the lower dimensional planes
and as far as boyfriends go,
I have yet to meet a guy that shares the same views as I do.
I wonder if this is part of my spiritual growth process because I swear last night
while I was texting this guy I
met online whom I thought would fit my idea of the perfect boyfriend, as he claimed to be
a screenwriter, and ironically
we share the same name “Indigo”.
You see I’ve had this fantasy of meeting and falling in love with a man that is on the spiritual
path, someone that can see
me for who and what I truly am, and not just the physical or the sexual part of me.
I was instantly intrigued by his
knowledge in film, writers, music, and directors.
Then it seems that once our
conversation switched to art
and creativity he flipped the script.
I simply suggested that
he work on his chakras to unblock them as he struggled with writers block and depression.
I explained how it helped me through my personal bout with
depression.
Then he goes on to tell me that
his favorite chakra is the 3rd eye, so I decided to share a story with
him about my recent experience working on my 3rd eye chakra.
I told how I received 2 messages while meditating.
The first message I heard was “Raise your hand and praise Jesus “!Then the second message I heard was “It’s all about love”!
I told him I was gonna send him the music that I used for that particular meditation and that how I believed that the voice
I heard was from God, then all of a sudden he became a different person, it was as if the devil came out.
He quickly became dark and negative while trying to insult my views and beliefs along with
my choice of faith.
He was the definition of nasty and evil, he told me that he didn’t want to hear Gods voice, and how he doesn’t believe in God or religions, and how everything I’ve been taught, has been nothing but a stupid lie! and that there is no God! and there is no Jesus! or an afterlife and that I’m delusional!
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, who was this demonic force trying to penetrate my core beliefs?
I could only take it so much,
so after the second time
he said that I’ve been lied to about Jesus, I just knew in my heart that I had to cut him off.
I was faced with my enemy if you will, as he claimed to be”atheist” and what really bothered me
the most was how far removed he was from anything remotely spiritual.
He was full of anger and held
deeply warped negative views on life, faith and religions.
My hopes of finding my soulmate went down the drain
I wouldn’t get to live out my fantasy of having a spiritual lover with someone that can be uplifting, while working together on music and writing.
So then after about the 7th nasty
text he sent me, I straight up told him “I’m sorry” but I can’t be your friend because “I believe in Jesus Christ “he’s my savior, and I’m on the spiritual path to awakening and your clearly in a negative place and your full of deep rooted issues, I can’t surround myself with your negative vibes!
“good luck” and “good bye”!
I was shaking as I wrote my last text to him, I don’t know if it was because I felt attacked or what
but, it definitely felt as if I was fighting with satan himself.
I find it bizarre how he chose to
contact me in the first place
and then I wondered why he chose such a spiritual name like that of “Indigo” when in reality he was undeserving of something that represents spiritual wisdom and
the ultimate connection to
“God”.
Feeling like a spiritual soldier
defending my “God” without giving it a second thought
immediately I blocked his number from my cellphone.
I hoped that my words would somehow touch his soul
and that he finds some kind of faith in his lifetime.
As I continue on my journey
today, I simply couldn’t imagine living that way, now that I’ve found my way back to a life
full of faith in “Jesus Christ”.
The love and peace I feel, every moment of every day has given new meaning and purpose to my life and I certainly refuse to ever let another man or relationship tear me away from my spiritual path.

“Living With a Toxic Roommate “ By Indigo Sky 5/21/18

Have you ever found yourself
living in an uncomfortable roommate situation? You know the kind that brought you nothing but stress and constant worrying?

Have you ever had a roommate that left you wondering what kind of mood you’ll find them in on a constant daily basis?

Don’t you just hate when your
roommate wakes you up at 5 am meanwhile your set to wake up at 10:30.

How about when your roommate starts the day with screaming and yelling even though everyone else is asleep and they’re the only one awake.
Did you ever have a roommate that wakes up angry and miserable and then expects everyone else to wake up in the same manner?

Have you ever woken up to the sound of broken glass and kitchen cabinets being slammed so hard that the entire cupboard shakes.

Have you ever had a roommate that
decided to do her laundry while your still trying to sleep?

Ever awaken to the banging thump of sneakers in the dryer? that you secretly hoped would melt into a gooey mess.

How about the excruciatingly
annoying sound of a broken washer machine that has a mind of its own.
Oh but wait, it gets better.

Have you ever heard the sound of “Godzillas footsteps walking back and forth in the living room practically shaking the entire apartment?

The world of roommates definitely has its ups and downs, I tell myself quickly remembering that everything is temporary as my roommate prepares to leave for her job.

Ahh yes…at last I can hear the footsteps slowly fade out to the hallway and down the stairs, at last she’s gone, I think to myself as my toxic roommate drives away .

Finally I can sleep again, after taking a deep breath I let the fleeting anger subside, as I confirm just how much misery loves company.

Sharing a living space can be challenging especially when one of you is on a spiritual path
and the other is still stuck in a lower vibration.

I discovered a few ways to prevent the drama and the inevitable fights that come along with confronting a toxic roommate.

I had to endure about a 2 years of  feeling resentment and anger. I felt stuck, frustrated and defeated.

Then I discovered a new approach to dealing with my toxic roommate and the results are amazing.

I began sleeping with earplugs every night, it’s easy cheap and effective.
Then if it gets super loud, I reach for my ear pods and I’ll listen to music or I’ll do my Chakras.
I find this will raise my vibration  plus allowing me to go back to sleep peacefully and wake up feeling refreshed and amazing instead of irritable or negative. I found this has helped to prevent many unnecessary fights.

I like to believe that our “home life” should be a “sacred space” where peace and serenity surrounds us over drama and fighting over ridiculous things.

There’s certainly enough conflict and negativity going on in this world, but don’t get me wrong, there are those moments when I am fed up, and just like any other person…would love to seek revenge.

Just the very thought of vacuuming the living room at
midnight appeals to me in a harmlessly wicked way…just to give them a taste of their own medicine, would probably satisfy me…if only for a moment. But no thank you, I have come too far on my journey .

The path to enlightenment is my current mindset and I certainly don’t want diminish all of my efforts by resorting to an eye for an eye mentality.

So instead of getting mad or lashing out at her, Sometimes  I will light incense and put on Reiki meditation music for cleansing the space of negativity it’s good to ward off toxic people.

I’ve played it secretly on several occasions while hoping my roommate would have an energy shift and guess what? It actually works.

I can testify it’s effectiveness even after heated arguments, I play the frequencies loud enough to be heard, allowing the vibrations to emit their powerful energy throughout the space and home.

Taking the higher road will keep the peace in your life, creating a peaceful environment while allowing you to remain your true happy spiritual self.

“Signs of Spiritual Awakening”

By Indigo sky

Many of us are starting to awaken and there is a hunger for spiritual truth as we seek a deeper understanding of life.

Here is a list of the signs that were revealed to me in subtle ways over a gradual period of time, as I began my journey to ascension. Maybe you are also experiencing one of the following :

1. Sudden interest in Yoga and Meditation.
2. Exploring Lucid Dreaming and Astral Travel/Projection.
3. Chakra Meditation and Kundalini yoga.
4. Opening of the 3rd eye.
Light Body Activation
5. Exercising outdoors with nature and natural sunlight.
6. Connecting with the vibrations of the plants and animals, the trees and the flowers.
7. Activating my pineal gland with the sun.
8. Awareness of nature, colors and details magnified.
9. Changing my music playlist to enhance my spiritual path .
10. Awareness of food and nutrition, resulting in the elimination of junk food and all processed foods.
11. Stopped drinking alcohol.
Eliminated toxic friendships and situations.
12. Shedding my desires for material possessions.
13. Stopped needing validation from people and social media.
14. Stopped needing a man or person to love me.
15. Sudden interest in what’s happening to our planet and wanting to help our wild life and marine life due to globalization and politics as well as pollution.
16. Feeling compassion and kindness.
17. Elevated happiness and bliss.
18. Trusting in the universe. 19. Having a connection to the divine light source, that which is God.